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Post by timegirl on Jan 11, 2021 14:36:43 GMT
People who use the abbreviated phrase “uncomfy”. It’s a stupid sounding cutesy phrase for something not cute and all the people I have come into contact with who use it tend to be judgemental immature jerks.
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Post by theother on Jan 11, 2021 15:59:45 GMT
When people are trying to tell a story or recount something that happened and they can't get to the point or keep interrupting themselves...
"Oh, did I tell you what happened to me at the grocery store? So on Monday...no... Wait...I think it was Tuesday... I was going to the grocery store and... No. It was Monday... Wait. Was it? No. I did laundry on Monday... So it must have been Tuesday. Anyway. When I was driving there... etc"
OR
Them: "Oh, did I tell you what happened to me at the grocery store?"
Me: "Yeah, you ran into Mark from high school and he's been living as a hermit in Fiji for 10 years..."
And then they proceed to retell the same story that you just showed beyond a shadow of a doubt THEY HAVE ALREADY TOLD YOU.
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shutupbanks
Castellan
There’s a horror movie called Alien? That’s really offensive. No wonder everyone keeps invading you.
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Post by shutupbanks on Jan 12, 2021 0:01:27 GMT
People who use the abbreviated phrase “uncomfy”. It’s a stupid sounding cutesy phrase for something not cute and all the people I have come into contact with who use it tend to be judgemental immature jerks. I have never heard that particular abbreviation before. It sounds terrible.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 12, 2021 0:11:58 GMT
People who use the abbreviated phrase “uncomfy”. It’s a stupid sounding cutesy phrase for something not cute and all the people I have come into contact with who use it tend to be judgemental immature jerks. I have never heard that particular abbreviation before. It sounds terrible. It is! I mostly hear it on stan Twitter (I don’t have a Twitter account but sometimes I look at public fan accounts of my favorite actors for new info). One of my cyber bullies used the phrase to say that I made everyone “super uncomfy with their deranged obsessions”. Mostly it seems to be people only a few years younger than me ( early twenties) who don’t know any better that use the phrase “uncomfy”.
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shutupbanks
Castellan
There’s a horror movie called Alien? That’s really offensive. No wonder everyone keeps invading you.
Likes: 5,669
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Post by shutupbanks on Jan 12, 2021 0:21:27 GMT
I have never heard that particular abbreviation before. It sounds terrible. It is! I mostly hear it on stan Twitter (I don’t have a Twitter account but sometimes I look at public fan accounts of my favorite actors for new info). One of my cyber bullies used the phrase to say that I made everyone “super uncomfy with their deranged obsessions”. Mostly it seems to be people only a few years younger than me ( early twenties) who don’t know any better that use the phrase “uncomfy”. “Super uncomfy”? You’re better off without them.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 12, 2021 0:23:10 GMT
It is! I mostly hear it on stan Twitter (I don’t have a Twitter account but sometimes I look at public fan accounts of my favorite actors for new info). One of my cyber bullies used the phrase to say that I made everyone “super uncomfy with their deranged obsessions”. Mostly it seems to be people only a few years younger than me ( early twenties) who don’t know any better that use the phrase “uncomfy”. “Super uncomfy”? You’re better off without them. Exactly 😉
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Post by Ela on Jan 18, 2021 19:55:03 GMT
A maintenance guy who wanted to come into my apartment without a mask - contrary to current management policy.
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Post by nucleusofswarm on Jan 18, 2021 20:53:12 GMT
A maintenance guy who wanted to come into my apartment without a mask - contrary to current management policy. I think I speak for everyone when I say: 'What a complete and utter dick.'
Sorry that happened to you.
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Post by Ela on Jan 18, 2021 21:04:34 GMT
A maintenance guy who wanted to come into my apartment without a mask - contrary to current management policy. I think I speak for everyone when I say: 'What a complete and utter dick.' Sorry that happened to you.
Thanks. I was kind of shocked. You'd think he'd want to protect himself. Especially since I live in an efficiency, basically one room, a kitchen with a pass through to the main living area, and a bathroom.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 18, 2021 23:24:02 GMT
I love my aunt,I really do, but when she pushes my buttons she REALLY pushes my buttons!
She’s in me and my mom’s bubble, so we walk with her every evening and we were talking about unemployment and she said: “Better enjoy the writing and things you enjoy now because you won’t be able to do them any more when you get a job again.”
I felt as though I was about ready to explode! I can’t stand people trivializing the things I want to do in life as though they don’t matter!
Luckily my mom was able to stop my explosive emotions before I got to vocally irritated. I try to stay calm when my aunt says things like this but she does often seem to say things that makes my temper start to boil over. I love her dearly but I hate it when people tell me how to live my life especially when it involves suggesting giving up all my dreams in order to conform for a job.
Does anyone else have frustrations like this?
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Post by aussiedoctorwhofan on Jan 18, 2021 23:28:36 GMT
I love my aunt,I really do, but when she pushes my buttons she REALLY pushes my buttons! She’s in me and my mom’s bubble, so we walk with her every evening and we were talking about unemployment and she said: “Better enjoy the writing and things you enjoy now because you won’t be able to do them any more when you get a job again.” I felt as though I was about ready to explode! I can’t stand people trivializing the things I want to do in life as though they don’t matter! Luckily my mom was able to stop my explosive emotions before I got to vocally irritated. I try to stay calm when my aunt says things like this but she does often seem to say things that makes my temper start to boil over. I love her dearly but I hate it when people tell me how to live my life especially when it involves suggesting giving up all my dreams in order to conform for a job. Does anyone else have frustrations like this? IMHO- Just straight up tell her exactly how you feel. She would appreciate the honesty and forthrightness. If not, then it's a learning process for her to basically think before she speaks to put it bluntly.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 18, 2021 23:31:43 GMT
I love my aunt,I really do, but when she pushes my buttons she REALLY pushes my buttons! She’s in me and my mom’s bubble, so we walk with her every evening and we were talking about unemployment and she said: “Better enjoy the writing and things you enjoy now because you won’t be able to do them any more when you get a job again.” I felt as though I was about ready to explode! I can’t stand people trivializing the things I want to do in life as though they don’t matter! Luckily my mom was able to stop my explosive emotions before I got to vocally irritated. I try to stay calm when my aunt says things like this but she does often seem to say things that makes my temper start to boil over. I love her dearly but I hate it when people tell me how to live my life especially when it involves suggesting giving up all my dreams in order to conform for a job. Does anyone else have frustrations like this? IMHO- Just straight up tell her exactly how you feel. She would appreciate the honesty and forthrightness. If not, then it's a learning process for her to basically think before she speaks to put it bluntly. Unfortunately I can’t, she would burst into tears and make me feel really guilty.
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Post by aussiedoctorwhofan on Jan 18, 2021 23:34:31 GMT
IMHO- Just straight up tell her exactly how you feel. She would appreciate the honesty and forthrightness. If not, then it's a learning process for her to basically think before she speaks to put it bluntly. Unfortunately I can’t, she would burst into tears and make me feel really guilty. So you are willing to let your feelings get hurt over her hearing the truth and self-reacting ? Look after yourself 1st IMHO (part 2 LOL)
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Post by timegirl on Jan 18, 2021 23:39:46 GMT
Unfortunately I can’t, she would burst into tears and make me feel really guilty. So you are willing to let your feelings get hurt over her hearing the truth and self-reacting ? Look after yourself 1st IMHO (part 2 LOL) Maybe I will just approach it gently next time or just change the subject(that usually works with her). Unfortunately it makes things worse when she gets upset because then it goes on for the rest of the visit or even the rest of the week. Let’s just say it’s a delicate balance with her.
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Post by aussiedoctorwhofan on Jan 18, 2021 23:42:33 GMT
So you are willing to let your feelings get hurt over her hearing the truth and self-reacting ? Look after yourself 1st IMHO (part 2 LOL) Maybe I will just approach it gently next time or just change the subject(that usually works with her). Unfortunately it makes things worse when she gets upset because then it goes on for the rest of the visit or even the rest of the week. Let’s just say it’s a delicate balance with her. Gentle or firm, either way for your own piece of mind she needs to know what/how she says things to you affects you. We are all in this thing called life together (to quote Prince) Fingers crossed this gets sorted out.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 18, 2021 23:44:37 GMT
Maybe I will just approach it gently next time or just change the subject(that usually works with her). Unfortunately it makes things worse when she gets upset because then it goes on for the rest of the visit or even the rest of the week. Let’s just say it’s a delicate balance with her. Gentle or firm, either way for your own piece of mind she needs to know what/how she says things to you affects you. We are all in this thing called life together (to quote Prince) Fingers crossed this gets sorted out. Thanks 😊🤞 Side note: Nice Prince quote!
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Post by aussiedoctorwhofan on Jan 18, 2021 23:50:09 GMT
Gentle or firm, either way for your own piece of mind she needs to know what/how she says things to you affects you. We are all in this thing called life together (to quote Prince) Fingers crossed this gets sorted out. Thanks 😊🤞 Side note: Nice Prince quote! :-) :-) Always have to recognise a musical genius
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Post by timegirl on Feb 27, 2021 15:42:28 GMT
I have a pet peeve with myself, I am pretty much my own worst enemy. I constantly get embarrassed at myself for everything I do but especially any of my creative ideas. Even though I am passionate about my ideas and things I often feel like I will either never get anywhere or that they are really weird or stupid. Sometimes I even start talking to myself in an embarrassed self deprecating way. I also constantly worry too much about everything in my life going wrong or being misinterpreted. I constantly have to reassure myself while also wanting to bang my head against the wall. Even though I feel slightly better in a weird way knowing a lot of people are in a similar situation of living at home and not doing much, I constantly have to battle feeling like I’m a loser for not achieving certain things in life yet. I know I am trying my best but sometimes it’s hard.
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Post by timegirl on Mar 14, 2021 16:14:16 GMT
One pet peeve I have with myself is getting upset again when I am reminded of something that up me before. Either someone brings up the thing that upset me, reading something, or just accidentally thinking about it. It’s frustrating because even if the reminder happens by accident or the person who brought it up didn’t realize it upset me, once it enters back into my head I usually start crying and then have difficulty getting it out of my mind again. It’s embarrassing because it happens with things that would be trivial to others but to me it feels massive. I have always had this problem. I try to not let thing get to me but sometimes it’s hard because I am naturally an overly emotional passionate person.
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Post by grinch on Apr 23, 2021 21:54:07 GMT
Not putting books back in their proper place when you take them out from the shelf.
There’s a system for a reason you know!
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