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Post by timegirl on Jan 12, 2021 23:55:29 GMT
Every early evening these days I feel very sad and downđ
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2021 0:28:18 GMT
Every early evening these days I feel very sad and downđ Its really hard with the current state of the world to not let your mind wander, especially when it gets to quiet down time in the evening. Wish i had some advice or tell you how i deal with the sad nights but i think its okay to be down and sad at the minute, all things considered. All i can say is this wonât be forever so just hang in there đ.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 13, 2021 0:32:26 GMT
Every early evening these days I feel very sad and downđ Its really hard with the current state of the world to not let your mind wander, especially when it gets to quiet down time in the evening. Wish i had some advice or tell you how i deal with the sad nights but i think its okay to be down and sad at the minute, all things considered. All i can say is this wonât be forever so just hang in there đ. Thanks đ
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Post by melkur on Jan 13, 2021 2:18:30 GMT
Well, it's 2 o'clock in the morning, the milk's just been delivered & a couple of foxes are spending some 'quality time'... Any normal person would be fast asleep right now, but me? 'Watching a 53minute abridged version of 'Coriolanus' by an American summer camp troupe.
Yup, sounds about right!
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Post by tuigirl on Jan 13, 2021 18:21:17 GMT
Banging my head against the wall just because life currently is just so frustrating. The whole new COVID situation, the new insane rules starting Monday, then I had my warrant done today and I had to pay 500 Euro for repairs on my car... I somehow feel I should wake up from a bad dream some time soon. One positive thing today was the online talk I gave for our company field workers (German division)- at least my one gift of talking enthusiastically about the biggest BS is still going strong. I did well (even if I am still struggling with Zoom). Next week I will repeat the same spiel in English for our international division.
Edit: I will now retire and read the new 13th Doctor comic. And maybe continue with the Star Trek Year Five comics which I found very enjoyable. I just need some escape now.
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Post by tuigirl on Jan 13, 2021 18:21:59 GMT
Every early evening these days I feel very sad and downđ Believe me, I know exactly how you feel.
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Post by Timelord007 on Jan 13, 2021 20:02:09 GMT
Although the doctor thinks my dad has chest infection he has got have covid test.
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Post by Timelord007 on Jan 13, 2021 20:03:08 GMT
I was ill earlier had shivers & being sick, ok now think stress last few days got to me.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 13, 2021 20:08:18 GMT
I was ill earlier had shivers & being sick, ok now think stress last few days got to me. Get well soon!đ€
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Post by johnhurtdoctor on Jan 13, 2021 21:27:33 GMT
Trump Impeached a 2nd time!!!
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Post by timegirl on Jan 14, 2021 0:35:25 GMT
www.bbcamerica.com/blogs/doctor-whos-day-roundup-here-come-the-drums--52995?fbclid=IwAR0T1-fpt-XxKCP-_2_G59mdaBhg7SQZVUI4jL2cUlaSdTWDvAYldApFz-w%20http://bbc.in/3oL2nXFThis may seem weird and nitpicky but this article both made my day and didnât make my day. I am glad they included fanart of my favorite DW romance 12 and Clara but it upsets me that the 12 and Clara fanart the BBC has to showcase had to be one of my cyber bullies. Yes, itâs a lovely drawing of my favorite pair kissing but itâs also by a nasty bully who made me feel like a deranged freak in long mocking posts on Twitter. I know I should forget and move on from being cyberbullied but it really hurt me. It should make me happy that the BBC basically saying that the romance between 12 and Clara is canon but it really upsets me to see them basically rewarded a bully. I know that the BBC have no way of knowing that the person who drew this is nasty piece of work but it still makes me feel weird and upsets me. Sorry if this is a weird thing to be bothered by but I just feel like I needed to get it off my chest. This is one of the horrible posts they said about me and why I have been feeling really self conscious about my thoughts and ideas the past several months:
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Thereâs a horror movie called Alien? Thatâs really offensive. No wonder everyone keeps invading you.
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Post by shutupbanks on Jan 14, 2021 1:33:39 GMT
I was ill earlier had shivers & being sick, ok now think stress last few days got to me. Keep well, Timelord.
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Post by elkawho on Jan 14, 2021 3:36:40 GMT
The teachers that run my son's High School theater club had an online meeting today with the kids. They are trying to find a way to salvage some kind of performance this year, so they have decided to do a series of audio dramas! They are doing War of the Worlds, Pride and Prejudice and another more modern comedy, but he couldn't remember the name. I don't think there's a parent more excited for this than I am.
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Post by tuigirl on Jan 14, 2021 8:51:13 GMT
www.bbcamerica.com/blogs/doctor-whos-day-roundup-here-come-the-drums--52995?fbclid=IwAR0T1-fpt-XxKCP-_2_G59mdaBhg7SQZVUI4jL2cUlaSdTWDvAYldApFz-w%20http://bbc.in/3oL2nXFThis may seem weird and nitpicky but this article both made my day and didnât make my day. I am glad they included fanart of my favorite DW romance 12 and Clara but it upsets me that the 12 and Clara fanart the BBC has to showcase had to be one of my cyber bullies. Yes, itâs a lovely drawing of my favorite pair kissing but itâs also by a nasty bully who made me feel like a deranged freak in long mocking posts on Twitter. I know I should forget and move on from being cyberbullied but it really hurt me. It should make me happy that the BBC basically saying that the romance between 12 and Clara is canon but it really upsets me to see them basically rewarded a bully. I know that the BBC have no way of knowing that the person who drew this is nasty piece of work but it still makes me feel weird and upsets me. Sorry if this is a weird thing to be bothered by but I just feel like I needed to get it off my chest. This is one of the horrible posts they said about me and why I have been feeling really self conscious about my thoughts and ideas the past several months: The only thing you can do is move on. These people crave attention, and if you give them the satisfaction of feeling hurt, they get exactly what the wanted.
I know it is hard, and this is basically what I had to do all my youth (and I lost it sooo many times), but it is wrong to a) bent down to their level and b) expending all this time and energy on feeling bad about someone. Especially since this person is a total hypocrite. So she hated your ideas but stole them and was now commended by the community? Sorry, but I just laugh at that (in a pitiful way).
Yes, it is totally unfair, but in a way, she actually paid tribute to YOU.
This is one of the reasons I like my fandom and all the escapism so much- just look at the latest Who New Years special. The ending with Trump -guy taking all the credit... and the Fam still moving on and not descending down to his level.... This is actually teaching us how to behave in real life and how to become a better person.
I am aware it is very hard. I went to therapy for years. I learned some meditation techniques like mindfulness (and I am terrible at meditation) and it can help a bit. One of the things I was taught is when these thoughts cross your mind and come back again and again, you do not push them away. You acknowledge them, you name them, and then you make an effort to come back to your current situation and name the things around you. And repeat that. This is a way of keeping things in perspective. It takes a lot of practice and can be frustrating.
But as I said above, it is completely counterproductive to dwell on these negative things and give people like that any more of your attention and time since they are not worth it.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 14, 2021 10:54:45 GMT
www.bbcamerica.com/blogs/doctor-whos-day-roundup-here-come-the-drums--52995?fbclid=IwAR0T1-fpt-XxKCP-_2_G59mdaBhg7SQZVUI4jL2cUlaSdTWDvAYldApFz-w%20http://bbc.in/3oL2nXFThis may seem weird and nitpicky but this article both made my day and didnât make my day. I am glad they included fanart of my favorite DW romance 12 and Clara but it upsets me that the 12 and Clara fanart the BBC has to showcase had to be one of my cyber bullies. Yes, itâs a lovely drawing of my favorite pair kissing but itâs also by a nasty bully who made me feel like a deranged freak in long mocking posts on Twitter. I know I should forget and move on from being cyberbullied but it really hurt me. It should make me happy that the BBC basically saying that the romance between 12 and Clara is canon but it really upsets me to see them basically rewarded a bully. I know that the BBC have no way of knowing that the person who drew this is nasty piece of work but it still makes me feel weird and upsets me. Sorry if this is a weird thing to be bothered by but I just feel like I needed to get it off my chest. This is one of the horrible posts they said about me and why I have been feeling really self conscious about my thoughts and ideas the past several months: The only thing you can do is move on. These people crave attention, and if you give them the satisfaction of feeling hurt, they get exactly what the wanted.
I know it is hard, and this is basically what I had to do all my youth (and I lost it sooo many times), but it is wrong to a) bent down to their level and b) expending all this time and energy on feeling bad about someone. Especially since this person is a total hypocrite. So she hated your ideas but stole them and was now commended by the community? Sorry, but I just laugh at that (in a pitiful way).
Yes, it is totally unfair, but in a way, she actually paid tribute to YOU.
This is one of the reasons I like my fandom and all the escapism so much- just look at the latest Who New Years special. The ending with Trump -guy taking all the credit... and the Fam still moving on and not descending down to his level.... This is actually teaching us how to behave in real life and how to become a better person.
I am aware it is very hard. I went to therapy for years. I learned some meditation techniques like mindfulness (and I am terrible at meditation) and it can help a bit. One of the things I was taught is when these thoughts cross your mind and come back again and again, you do not push them away. You acknowledge them, you name them, and then you make an effort to come back to your current situation and name the things around you. And repeat that. This is a way of keeping things in perspective. It takes a lot of practice and can be frustrating.
But as I said above, it is completely counterproductive to dwell on these negative things and give people like that any more of your attention and time since they are not worth it.
Thanks đ I needed to hear that!
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Post by Timelord007 on Jan 14, 2021 14:43:15 GMT
Dad tested positive for Covid, i had be tested as i have flu like symptoms, at minute no temperature just feel like got cold.
Worried sick.
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Post by timegirl on Jan 14, 2021 15:01:14 GMT
Dad tested positive for Covid, i had be tested as i have flu like symptoms, at minute no temperature just feel like got cold. Worried sick. Iâm so sorry to hear that! I have everything crossed for you and your family.đ€
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2021 15:04:52 GMT
Dad tested positive for Covid, i had be tested as i have flu like symptoms, at minute no temperature just feel like got cold. Worried sick. In my prayers mate
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Post by grinch on Jan 14, 2021 15:09:46 GMT
Dad tested positive for Covid, i had be tested as i have flu like symptoms, at minute no temperature just feel like got cold. Worried sick. All the best to you and your family Timelord.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2021 15:25:44 GMT
Dad tested positive for Covid, i had be tested as i have flu like symptoms, at minute no temperature just feel like got cold. Worried sick. All the best to you and your family Timelord. Seconded!
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